Stop Waiting for Your Dream Life (Part 1: The Recognition)
I used to think my dream life would begin when I “made it.” But sitting here in Rockport with coffee in hand, seagulls overhead and salt air filling my lungs, I realized: this is it. The dream life isn’t pinned to a board—it’s rooted in presence, contentment, and creativity.
Four Inspiring Books to Help You Live Unconventionally & Create Your Dream Life
These are the books that became my lighthouses in the messy middle—reminding me that you don’t need to wait for milestones to start living your dream life. If you’ve ever felt untethered or weighed down by “shoulds,” these stories may help you find your own way home.
Garden Notes: The August Harvest
August has been a practice in slowing down — shaping my days around rituals, cozy recipes, and small joys. This month’s Harvest gathers the grounding habits, tiny luxuries, and moments of presence that carried me through late summer. Think of it as a little care package from my garden to yours.
What Moving Back Home Taught Me About Identity, Belonging, and Reconnecting With Yourself
My childhood bedroom is now my office. A wooden desk sits where a twin bed once was, cameras and computers where Barbies once lived. Some days it feels like my past self is still here, just out of reach. This essay is about memory, leaving and returning, and what it means to live beside her again.
How to Break Free from the "When-Then" Cycle and Stop Postponing Your Life
I spent years living in the when-then cycle: When I get this, then I’ll be happy. When I reach that milestone, then my real life begins. I chased dream after dream, but every time I arrived, I’d already set my sights on the next. It took an unexpected pause to see the truth — the in-between isn’t a waiting room. It’s where the becoming happens.
Slow Travel Montreal: A 4-Day Itinerary to See, Sip, and Savor the City
A cozy, slow travel guide to Montreal—from markets and mountaintops to courtyard cafés and scenic city walks. Thoughtful tips, local gems, and reflections from the in-between.
What I Learned From a Woman I Never Met: A Story of Ancestral Connection
I never met my great-grandmother, Concetta. But somehow, she keeps showing up—in my mirror, in my kitchen, and in the quiet rituals passed down through generations. This is a story about memory, family recipes, and the invisible ways we’re shaped by the women who came before us.
What Being Laid Off and Becoming a Caregiver Taught Me About Real Friendship
When my mom was diagnosed with cancer and I was laid off four months later, I learned something I didn't expect: crisis doesn't just shift your priorities — it reshapes your relationships entirely.
Tiny Rebellions: What Grew When I Deleted TikTok
I didn’t delete TikTok to be more productive. I deleted it to hear myself again.
What started as a tiny rebellion against the scroll became something more—an invitation to return to my own voice, rebuild creative trust, and make space for what actually wants to grow.
How Perfectionism Keeps You Waiting to Be Happy (And How to Stop)
Somewhere between 26 and 32, I started shrinking my desires, believing I was too old, too late, too much. But I’m learning that wanting isn’t dangerous—and naming what we want is its own quiet rebellion.
When the In-Between Becomes a Home
I used to think life was about getting to the next station. Now I’m learning that the real magic is in the ride itself—and that the in-between might just be where we finally feel at home.
Why I Started My Creative Sabbatical: The Story Behind My First YouTube Video
On April 2, I was laid off from my six-figure job, and everything changed. Instead of rushing into the next chapter, I chose to slow down, start over, and document the journey.
In Praise of Boring Days: Why Slowness is Sacred
What if boring wasn’t a sign you’re doing life wrong — but proof you’re finally coming home to yourself? A personal essay on romanticizing the mundane, reclaiming rest, and honoring the quieter seasons of becoming.
Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself
We’re told intentional living starts at 5am with a perfect routine — but maybe it starts here: in one honest moment, where you choose what you actually need. A gentle reminder to drop the “shoulds” and come back to yourself.
How to Use Journaling and AI Together to Build Self-Awareness (And Finally See Your Blind Spots)
I thought journaling might help clear my mind, but I didn’t expect AI to help me see myself more clearly. In this reflection, I share how combining journaling with ChatGPT helped me uncover blind spots, challenge old patterns, and begin walking a softer, more intentional path forward.
When Slowing Down Turns Into Getting Stuck
It’s been 57 days since I was laid off, and instead of sprinting toward the next chapter, I’ve been sitting in the quiet unknown. This post isn’t a list of takeaways or a tidy success story. It’s a reflection on what happens when life slows down without your permission—and the uncomfortable, beautiful lessons that surface when you finally stop trying to fix it all.
How to Rebuild Your Life After Burnout (Without the Hustle)
Burnout doesn't always announce itself. It just quietly hollows you out until you've forgotten what full feels like. Here's what rebuilding actually looked like for me and the tiny rebellions that changed everything.
My Favorite Reads of 2022
My five-star reads of 2022. We've got fiction and romance with a dash of travel! Absolutely loved all these books and can't wait to get started on my 2023 TBR.
First Day At My New Job
Come spend the first day of my new job with me. My company is located in the PNW, but I work east coast hours. I'll show you how I prep for the first day, set up my new work from home equipment, and more!
How To Choose The Best Hostel For Solo Travelers
A hostel is a great way to travel on a budget. Preferred by young and solo travelers, hostels are a great place to meet fellow travelers, explore a city, get loads of free experiences, and be in prime locations at an affordable price. Here are 5 tips to help you choose the best hostel as a solo traveler so that you can make the most of your next trip abroad.