I Broke Every Morning Pages Rule and Finally Found Clarity
I tried morning pages as a burned-out overachiever who had already tried everything else. They didn't fix me but they made it impossible to keep lying to myself. Here's my honest review, including the three things I changed that made them actually work.
How to Live Your Dream Life Now: The Enough Audit
Miss Rumphius scattered her seeds in an ordinary life. Not someday. Not once everything was perfect. Right where she was. Here's how to do the same
I Was Living My Dream Life and Still Burned Out: What Miss Rumphius Taught Me About What Was Actually Missing (Part 1)
Miss Rumphius had three dreams. I'd spent years chasing the first two — the travel, the coast. A someday life. It took burnout, a layoff, and rereading a childhood picture book to realize the third.
Field Notes: 12 Experiments in Building Joy After Burnout
What happens when you stop postponing life for "someday"? I'm spending my 33rd year running 12 experiments to answer one question: How do you build a state of joy that coexists with the uncertainty of life? This is autoethnographic research—documenting real-time experiments in creative expression, intentional living, and deprogramming from hustle culture. No guru shit, just messy truth from the wilderness.
The Perfectionism Trap: Why 'Good Enough' Changed My Life
Perfectionism doesn't make you better—it just keeps you stuck. Here's how the 80% rule helped me overcome my creative block and start creating after 10 years of waiting to be "ready."
When Loss Became Language
A reflective essay on how loss became a language of its own — from losing a phone in a Scottish bog to losing jobs and identities years later. A story of creative recovery, writing as an anchor, and learning to live through the in-between.
Creative Burnout Recovery: How to Build a Sustainable Creative Life (Without Burning Out Again)
After my layoff swept my table of proof clean, I had to rebuild my creative life from scratch. Here are three practices helping me create without equating my worth with output—lessons about capacity, imperfection, and learning to trust my seasons.
What Being Laid Off and Becoming a Caregiver Taught Me About Friendship
When crisis cracked my life open, I learned that friendship doesn’t always look how you expect. Some people fade. Some root deeper. This is a love letter to the ones who showed up and a reflection on how I’m learning to do the same.